Reality Check of your current situation.
When you ask yourself some important questions and are truthful on the answers your own unconscious mind will reveal to you the correct strategy. It is asking the right questions in the right manner.
Am I completely responsible for my actions? Yes / No
Am I completely responsible for my own thoughts? Yes/No
You either become your circumstance or you be the instrument of change in your circumstance. Where there is confusion or chaos there is also opportunity. Look for the opportunity of change for the better.
Caution. There are no short cuts here. There is only persistence in going forward in the direction you want to go and a destination you want to arrive at.
Start your reality check with the end goal in mind. What end result do you wish to have/achieve?
What do I want? Most people phrase this in the negative. I don’t want to be ill. I don’t want to be in debt. I don’t want….
All these don’t wants create the present you are living in.
What do I want? I want to be free of debt, I want to be healthy, I want to be successful.
These phrases are in the positive and bring to you all the things you want.
What do I want to do about it? Think about it, then Decide and PLAN your Success.
Take the opportunity to change ‘the speak’ and thinking even more to the present tense.
I am free of debt, I am healthy, I am successful.
The present tense statements are the commands that you embed into your unconscious programming for success. By repeating the positive affirmation of your successful and resourceful state you become this state.
A lot of people go into looking at the past. Let me put this frankly. The past has gone. It is your history and there it remains. Your past does not dictate your future. It is the correct daily actions you take that will change your future to the one you want coupled with the correct thinking.
The definition of Insanity
Doing the same things and having the same stinking thinking and expecting a different result.
This is what you now do:
Answer the two questions above. Yes I am responsible for my actions. Yes I am responsible for my thoughts.
Decide to take responsibility for them and redefine your statement about your current situation.
I want to be free of debt. I plan to be free of debt, I am free of debt.
Put a start date and an end date of when you want this to happen.
I want to be free of debt. I plan to be free of debt, I am free of debt on this day, XXX,Month,Year. So it is.
On October 10, 2014, I fell ill. I had been burning the candle at both ends working under a huge amount of stress for a very long time. 10 years, without adequately being recognized or rewarded. Nature took its toll.
Reality Check #1. Take care of yourself better and change what you are doing. Know that two of my models of a success strategy were not being met. These were adequate recognition and reward. Know yourself
Doctors could not decide whether I had suffered a stroke or just Bells Palsy. In any event I was paralyzed on my left side, face, use of left arm and left leg. I was told, you may never walk again and certainly you will not be able to return to work.
You will need rehabilitation in a Stroke Rehab Clinic. I was not able to articulate coherently.
Reality Check #2.Doctors have given me a sentence for life. Do I want to accept this? Yes/No. Answer No. Doctors make mistakes, I can change a lot of what I do and give myself time out for a year. I made Choices. I made a Decision.
I gave myself 1 year to rest, re-evaluate my life/work balance and make some changes.
Reality Check #3.My mental and physical side needed work. My professional friends helped. Use of Acupuncture helped with all muscles and movement. Tai Chi and Luminosity assisted with mental acuity. Being blessed with a loving and supportive family.
What was my Reality Check goal for 2015?
I wanted to be healthy physically, mentally and spiritually.
I wanted to develop my existing and new business using all the skills and knowledge to the best of my advantage and maintain a healthy work/rest/family balance whilst being recognized and rewarded handsomely.
I want to be healthy physically, mentally and spiritually.
I want to develop my existing and new business using all the skills and knowledge to the best of my advantage and maintain a healthy work/rest/family balance whilst being recognized and rewarded handsomely.
I plan to be healthy physically, mentally and spiritually.
I plan to develop my existing business using all the skills and knowledge to the best of my advantage and maintain a healthy work/rest/family balance whilst being recognized and rewarded handsomely.
I am healthy physically, mentally and spiritually.
My existing and new business is thriving using all the skills and knowledge to the best of my advantage and maintaining a healthy work/rest/family balance.
I am recognized and rewarded handsomely.
So it is.
As of November 2015, I was invited by Joane Goulding to be their organisation’s Coach Consultant to SleepTalk for Children Consultants and Trainers.
Plan for Success